We will have to be disillusioned, according to statistics, ejaculation, once the penetration has started, lasts on average three minutes for the majority of men, precisely between two and five minutes according to a Venezuelan study presented at the World Congress of Sexology in Montreal. in 2002, and confirming previous French reports. The sexual act as a whole lasts longer, often half an hour, except to fall on a primitive (e) a little rustic who imagines that love is plowing and grazing. . As Tracey Cox humorously observes in “Sexus Feminitus”, one of the most common mistakes of even experienced lovers is to underestimate the time it takes for a woman to reach sex.Orgasm. Suddenly, many of them will rush things: according to the most often cited figure in terms of oral sex (the fastest and most direct way), it takes twenty minutes between the first lick and the last thrill. To qualify of course, we know well that the triggering of pleasure depends on many factors such as stress, age, fatigue, alcoholism, desire.
With a condom, it must be after ejaculation but before the end of the erection, to prevent the penis, which has become flaccid again, from slipping out of the condom.
Without a condom, there is no rule, and many women appreciate that their partner stays in them until their penis, returning to its size at rest, withdraws almost naturally.
Condom or not, it is, in any case, also the right time for tender hugs and kisses …
After a very romantic weekend, the vulva, heated by friction, can become downright painful. In this case, we must take a break. For the toilet, use a soap without soap, spreading on the vulva a healing and softening cream such as Cicalfate, Homeoplasmine or Dermocuivre, once is generally sufficient. Wear cotton underwear, and absolutely avoid thongs and tights or pants that are too tight. When “hostilities” resume, think about varying the amorous positions.
