Inspiration for the bedroom
As you get older, your sex life can change and sometimes it takes some inspiration. Below are some tips.
Hold on baby, I’m reading
The brochure ‘Sex as you get older’ examines the question of what changes for the elderly in their experience of sexuality, and provides tips for a better sex life. Can be ordered for €1 at the Rutgers Nisso Groep, an information and knowledge center for sexuality, via T 030-231 34 31 or can be downloaded for free at or www.rng.nl/shop.
With the buttocks exposed
Is it getting harder and harder to get an erection or to get aroused? Does sex sometimes hurt or do you no longer feel like it at all and your partner does? Going to the sex therapist to talk about it may be a big step, but it often helps. Nowadays every hospital has a sexology department and there are also independent sexologists. Ask your doctor or look at www.nvvs.info.
Close the curtains first
Erotic movies can be a great way to get aroused, but aren’t they always vulgar and with only young people feeling tight? That’s not necessary; they come in all kinds of styles. Comstock Movies (www.comstockfilms.com) sells movies with realistic people and a story, for example. One of these is ‘Bill and Desiree, Love is Timeless’, about an older couple who talk about how they met, why they are attracted to each other – and in the end, of course, you see everything.
on www.shespot.nl/watching/film.php (Shespot is an erotic site for women) There is a whole list of erotic movies that are not misogynistic and have a story. Including reviews and tips about where the films can be bought or rented.
Sources):
- Plus Magazine