Romantic feelings are often difficult to decipher. Here are some keys to help you do this better.
Recognizing the signs of romantic attraction requires sensitivity and attention to detail. While everyone expresses their emotions differently, there are some common clues that can help you get started.
Nonverbal signs: deciphering body language
Body language is often a great indicator of emotions, especially love. There are several unconscious behaviors that can betray a person’s attraction. For example, someone who stares at you intensely and maintains eye contact is usually showing interest.
Another common clue is subtle physical contact. A person who is attracted to you will reach out to brush your arm or hold you for longer than necessary. These small gestures are attempts at closer contact, illustrating a desire for physical connection.
Behavioral cues: observing laughter and nervousness
Behavior changes when romantic feelings are involved. If the person laughs at your jokes, even the unfunny ones, it often shows that they enjoy your company. Laughter, in this context, is an unconscious seduction tool that strengthens the bond and complicity.
On the other hand, when someone is attracted, they may also display unusual restlessness: touching their hair frequently, adjusting their clothes, or making awkward gestures. All of these signals show that they are trying to impress you or are anxious about looking good in your eyes.
Investing in discussion
Another strong sign of romantic feelings is interest in your personal life. Asking questions about your past, your plans or your dreams shows that he or she wants to know you in depth and project themselves into a more intimate relationship. A person in love will take the time to listen to you, understand your emotions and create a space of trust.
If the person talks to you about their long-term plans and includes you, it means they have a desire to build something together. These discussions about the future often reveal a sincere affection and a desire to share important moments beyond the present.
Learn more: “The Art of Loving” by Erich Fromm.
