Emotional needs change over time.
- Affection must be dosed and adapted to each phase of life to nourish the child’s development.
- From birth, the infant perceives love mainly through the care provided by those close to him.
- Between 2 and 3 years old, when the child begins to assert his will, often during the “no” phase, frustrations can be numerous. This is a time when affection must be patient and understanding.
Affection is a vital ingredient to human development. It must be dosed and adapted to each phase of life to nourish the child’s development. By responding sensitively to your child’s changing needs, you can help him lay the foundation for strong emotional growth, both in connection with his parents and with others.
The very beginnings: affection through daily gestures
From birth, the infant perceives love mainly through the care provided by those close to him. While changing a diaper may seem trivial, doing it gently and attentively is a profound act of love for him.
These gestures of care are then the first threads woven into the attachment relationship between parents and children.
Early childhood: encouraging safe exploration
When he begins to walk and talk, the child becomes a little adventurer who needs more security. By giving him a magical kiss after being injured, or celebrating a successful puzzle with a hug, you show him your affection to strengthen his self-esteem and encourage him to explore more of his environment.
These moments of tenderness become the basis of his feeling of security.
In kindergarten: supporting self-affirmation
Between 2 and 3 years old, when the child begins to assert his will, often during the “no” phase, frustrations can be numerous. This is a time when affection must be patient and understanding.
By remaining calm in the face of emotional storms, or offering a hug after an argument, you teach him how to manage emotions by example, a fundamental aspect of love.
After 3 years: balancing presence and personal space
From the age of 3 to 5, children begin social exploration and assert their independence. It is now a matter of encouraging their initiatives, listening to their stories of budding friendships, while respecting their need for autonomy. At this age, affection becomes more discreet but nevertheless remains fundamental, especially to support him in his quest for independence.
Find out more: “Letter to a young parent” by Catherine Gueguen
