Lower abdomen
Here, the points capable of reviving desire are different in men and women.
for her
The belly of a woman is a sensitive and sensual place that must be massaged tenderly. A point that develops sexual energy and sensitizes the vagina is approximately 2 inches above the pubis. Gently massage this area with your fingertips, making gentle circular movements, then return regularly to the “magic point”.
For him
Start by stroking her stomach and chest. Then go down to the navel. The area that extends to the pubis is full of tender points. Massage it, caress it, touch it as you wish … Then continue your descent to his penis. All around her penis are a host of points that stimulate the libido: do not hesitate to press very gently with your fingers, then to caress this region widely.
In the small of the back
The back has a multitude of points capable of reboosting the libido. However, in men and women, they are not located in the same place: they are found in the lower back at home, closer to the buttocks in her.
Sensually massaging the buttocks is very exciting for you and your partner. Start by putting your hands on her thighs, then work your way up to her buttocks. The gesture must be quite firm. Then knead her buttocks with generous gestures. Finally, starting from the coccyx, go down by pressing with your thumbs on both sides of the gluteal fold.
for her
Sit on your partner’s thighs. The “magic point” which increases his excitement is located about 5 cm above the line of the buttocks. Stimulate this point by making small circular movements with your thumb. Then go up to his back and gently press on either side of his spine to above his waist. This whole area is particularly rich in points that stimulate the rise of desire, so do not hesitate to massage it and to caress it generously and for a long time.
For him
Sit astride your partner’s buttocks. In humans, you will find a point capable of boosting their excitement about 10 cm above the tailbone. Also, stroke, pat, knead this whole area and, for greater excitement, you can also place a few kisses on it … Then place your thumbs at the bottom of his back, and slowly go up to his neck by exerting light pressures. Your movements should be very slow.
From head to toes
Kneel behind your partner’s skull. Massage her scalp with small circular motions. Go back to the top of his head. At the top of his head is a point that boosts sexual arousal.
To “make your companion want”, press on it very gently, then massage as if you were shampooing lightly. Finally, ask him to put himself on his stomach. Then place your thumbs on either side of his neck and go up to the base of his head.
When properly massaged, the foot can become a very pleasant erogenous zone. Grasp your partner’s left foot. Place your thumb and forefinger on either side of his heel, and make circular movements. “At this location, there are points which correspond to the ovaries, testes and prostate,” explains Claude Didier. By massaging them, you stimulate sexual desire. Gently go up her ankle. The entire area from the bottom of the heel to the start of the leg is linked to the lower abdomen. By these skillful gestures, you excite the libido. Do not hesitate to make back and forth movements and generously caress this entire part of the body.
Finally, several points of sexual stimulation are aligned in the middle of the soles of the feet, between the heel and the second toe. In Chinese acupuncture, they are called “gushing force”. Using the thumb of your right hand, perform tiny eights in the center of the arch of the foot. Repeat these massages on the right foot.
