How to live your sexuality despite cancer?

Between the shock of the announcement, the worry and the sadness, but also the localization of the cancer and the treatments, the consequences on sexuality are very frequent. Talking to the healthcare team not only allows you to confide in this intimate subject, but also to find ways to deal with it.

How does cancer influence sexuality?

If some cancers directly affect a sexual organ, surgical treatment, radiotherapy, hormone therapy or chemotherapy can also have direct consequences on libido, erection, ejaculation, sexual comfort, and emotions in general. Fatigue, pain, nausea, vaginal dryness, weight gain or loss, hair loss or the presence of scars can also indirectly affect one’s self-image and sexual desire.

Some preconceived ideas also die hard, whether it’s guilt and shame for not being able to satisfy one’s partner, or the idea that this can interfere with the effectiveness of treatment.

Dare to talk about it to find solutions

Taking the time for a consultation, possibly with your oncologist or the medical team to address this intimate subject, allows you not only to find support, but also comfort and possibly solutions. Whether it’s psychotherapy, advice on sexual practice, work on body image, or the prescription of certain medications, everyone can reinvent a new way of feeling pleasure and stimulating his sexuality.

If necessary, consultation with a sexologist or even a psycho-oncologist will allow regular monitoring and personalized care.

Find out more: “Cancer and sexuality, let’s talk about it! : From adolescence to adulthood”, by Sébastien Landry, In press editions.