A meeting, glances that meet, words exchanged, knowing laughter… When it comes to seduction, the game is often won or lost in a few moments. The art of seduction is not infallible but, whatever the situation, the primary objective is to know how to attract the attention of the other. Discover how to seduce in five minutes.
More than a thunderbolt, the art of seduction is a skillful alchemy. The first meetings are generally furtive: the objective of the person who seeks to seduce is to attract the attention of the other.
We suddenly want the other person to notice us and have a positive impression. Without even realizing it, we then become a deeply sympathetic being, sporting a smiling and fulfilled face.
The art of seduction through body language
Seduction is not only visual, it is deeply psychological. The behavior we adopt at this precise moment proves it.
Our body-language, that is to say our bodily attitude, is coordinated around this frank and blissful smile that we display in front of the other. The relaxed body, the gaze supported but soft, we literally express the physical attraction that we feel.
As we know, only a tiny part of what we communicate happens through words; about 15% say the researchers. That is why it is wrong to imagine let it be the language that ensures the success of a meeting.
Most of the message we want to convey to the other is transmitted by the body. When one is sincere, there is no special effort requiredeverything happens “naturally” provided you make good use of your eyes…
The importance of the gaze
The look is thus the first sign to capture his attention. A study found that the more intense and prolonged the gaze, the more likely a woman is to seduce her target. And if you hold your gaze longer than 5 seconds, you greatly increase your chances of getting a smile.
When it comes to seduction, your smile is one of your most beautiful assets. Without even speaking or exchanging, a smile already says a lot about your personality and your purpose.
The art of seduction is therefore first of all to create the opportunity to look each other in the eye to trigger a smile. And if the other person hasn’t noticed you yet, know that you will need wait one minute on average to attract his gaze to you. Now is not the time to crack!
Everyone knows that if you can lie with words, it is not the same with gestures. However, it is not forbidden to address this “other” that we have just discovered, if only to introduce ourselves.
Beyond words, it is with your body that you can convince. Unconsciously, we address non-verbal cues that the other identifies as pleasant (hopefully!), thus promoting a climate of trust.
And then let’s face it, shyness is often in order. What we dare not say with words, the body says for us.
The art of seduction is also knowing how to “decode” the other
Man or woman, know how to decode the hidden signs of the other! They are often emitted in an unconscious way and they have the merit of bringing clarity to the likely outcome of the meeting.
Here are some gestures and their meaning :
- Stroking your hair means “to be bored firmly”
- Rubbing your eyes means “to be overwhelmed by doubt”
- Nail biting means “feeling uncomfortable or insecure”
- Tapping your chin means “wanting to make a decision”
- To strum your fingers means “to show impatience”
- Tickling your earlobe means “being unable to make a decision”
- Rubbing your nose means “being uncomfortable or even lying”
The art of seduction is not not an exact science. And besides, if we held the key to guaranteed seduction, it would no longer be useful! This is the whole subtlety of the exercise.
Seduction happens on two levels: conscious and unconscious. To succeed in seducing, it is necessary to be already in tune with oneselfto have self-confidence, to allow your unconscious to properly translate through body language what you would like to express through words!
