I reconnect with my body
Not all bodies are perfect in the way we generally understand it, but they all have something beautiful and very sensual about them. And this is also your case, as long as you stop observing yourself with a magnifying glass! It is important to be aware of this, for example in the bathroom. Do the following test. The next time you apply an oil or body milk, close your eyes or, better, turn off the light. Then let your senses do the talking: silky skin, feminine curves, an intimate fragrance. Something to gently reconnect with your body and feel it exist again, with pleasure.
I regain confidence in myself
When we do not like ourselves or less – and we are generally ruthless with ourselves – we do not feel desirable and we do not want to seduce. First thing to do: list your assets… and forget the rest!
I remain feminine, even at home,
Do you feel good jogging at home? Yes. Do you feel sexy, full of desire, ready for a tender tete-a-tete in this outfit? The answer is no, of course. You got ready, dressed to go to work… don’t change when you come home. Show it, he loves it. And so much for comfort.
I play with my hair
Hair cut every three weeks is more practical, you say. Certainly… But what does he think of it, he who so loved the scent of your neck under your hair, his movement and his way of gently haloing your face. Without trying to find a teenage look, why not let what remains one of the prettiest feminine adornments grow back. Without noticing it, of course. A few bright highlights to enhance their natural color is more upkeep, perhaps… But what you’ll see in the mirror will appeal to you, too.
I take care of my privacy
Everyone has their own habits in terms of hygiene, grooming… or body hair. But the very fact of taking the initiative for a change in this place can be a source of new emotions. Looking after a garden… in fallow land, pruning it according to one’s mood, scenting it, tinting it, making it disappear completely, just to see, is a very simple experience to try. New sensations whip up desire. Come on, let’s try!
I renew my lingerie
In short, I stop displaying bras with faded elastics, mismatched panties, tights… ugly. On the lingerie side, without turning into a Crazy Horse dancer, you can try the glamorous atmosphere. Take a trip to the department stores and treat yourself to one or two sets: today, aesthetics and comfort go hand in hand. Add a pair of “stand-alone” stockings if you’re not ready for garter belts and heeled shoes or boots. Leave one morning thus dressed (obligatory dress) and listen to the new sensations that you will not have failed to give birth to. Moreover, the fabric that rustles, the friction of the stockings, it’s auto-erotic.
Are we making a movie?
Fantasies feed desire: they disappear when you have none left. What is it exactly? From a box of secret, exciting and very personal images. A kind of small homemade projection room that can be operated at will. You no longer have any erotic dreams? Getting the machine back up and running is easy. One image leading to another, your evocative power is just waiting to be awakened. No matter when and where, you will feel your libido increase at high speed. It is up to you, later, whether or not to share these images with the one you love. And if the complicity and the desire incite you there, to put them in scene.