I reconnect with my body
Not all bodies are perfect in the way we generally understand them, but there is something beautiful and very sensual about them. And this is also your case, as long as you stop observing yourself with a magnifying glass! It is important to be aware of this, for example in the bathroom. Take the following test. The next time you apply an oil or body lotion, close your eyes, or better yet, turn off the light. Then let your senses speak: silky skin, feminine curves, an intimate fragrance. Enough to gently reconnect with your body and feel it exist again, with pleasure.
I regain my confidence
When we do not love each other or less – and we are generally ruthless with ourselves – we do not feel desirable and we do not want to seduce. First thing to do: make a list of your assets … and forget the rest!
I remain feminine, even at home,
Do you feel good while jogging at home? Yes. Do you feel sexy, full of desire, ready for a romantic tête-à-tête in this outfit? The answer is of course no. You got ready, dressed to go to work … don’t change when you get home. Show it, he loves it. And too bad for the comfort.
I play with my hair
Hair cut every three weeks is more convenient, you say. Certainly … But what does he think, he who loved the scent of your neck under your hair so much, its movement and its way of gently surrounding your face. Without trying to rediscover a teenage look, why not let what remains one of the prettiest feminine sets to grow back. Without pointing it out, of course. A few shiny reflections to enhance their natural color, it’s more maintenance, maybe … But what you see in the mirror will seduce you, too.
I take care of my privacy
Everyone has their own habits in terms of hygiene, grooming … or hair growth. But the mere fact of taking the initiative for a change in this place can be a source of new emotions. Caring for a garden … wasteland, pruning it according to your mood, scenting it, tinting it, making it disappear completely, just to see, is a very simple experience to try. New sensations whip up desire. Come on, let’s try!
I renew my lingerie
In short, I stop displaying bras with faded elastics, mismatched panties, tights … ugly. On the lingerie side, without turning into a Crazy Horse dancer, you can try the glamorous atmosphere. Take a tour of the department stores and treat yourself to one or two sets: today, aesthetics and comfort go hand in hand. Add a pair of stockings that “hold up on their own” if you are not ready for the garter belt and shoes or boots with heels. Leave one morning dressed in this way (dress required) and listen to the new sensations that you will not fail to give birth to. In addition, the fabric which rustles, the friction of the stockings, it is auto-erotic.
Shall we make a movie?
Fantasies feed desire: they disappear when you no longer have them. What is it exactly? From a box of secret, exciting and very personal images. A sort of small home projection room that can be operated at will. Do you no longer have the slightest erotic dream? It is easy to restart the machine. One image leading to another, your power of evocation is just waiting to be awakened. No matter when or where, you will feel your libido soaring at high speed. You are free, later, to share or not these images with the one you love. And if complicity and desire encourage you, to stage them.
