A very cheerful practice
Nobody openly claims to adhere to Fast Sex, however, these “lightning” relationships began to be mentioned in the 80s. Always at the forefront of novelties, it is first of all the gay community which spoke freely about this sexual practice. . The principle ? Everything happens very quickly! Without following the classic patterns of seduction and sexual codes, two people meet and have a quick and immediate intimate relationship. No continuation of the story, everyone goes home. Homosexuals particularly appreciate the non-engaging aspect. But beyond gay circles, Fast Sex is also very common in libertine places. It is for these same reasons that heterosexual couples go to swingers clubs.
Honey, do you have two minutes?
Within a straight couple, Fast Sex can spice up a purring sex life. The two people still need to be on the same wavelength. The specialist explains: “It is more difficult for a woman than a man to be stimulated. In addition, to be really aroused, they often need the ceremonial made of caresses before coitus”. But faced with these considerations, why do women like this practice? Dr Mimoun specifies: “In Fast Sex, it is the effect of surprise that appeals to women. The act in itself is secondary”. But watch out too much Fast Sex, kill sex!
Beware of addiction
A sex life cannot be based on this concept alone. The refusal to continue on this path will not jeopardize the life of your couple, especially if it is harmonious. On the other hand, if you get carried away, it can be done to the detriment of your … libido. The doctor specifies: “Once under the duvet (or elsewhere), it is important that both people want to. Otherwise Fast Sex, like any other practice, becomes a chore”. And who says chore, says absence of pleasure, the height of sex! On the other hand, if you are on the same wavelength, the game is worth the effort …
With the collaboration of Dr Sylvain Mimoun, gynecologist andrologist, director of the andrology center, Hôpital Cochin
