Even if there is no magic button on which to press to reach orgasm, certain conditions as well as a good choice of positions between partners can contribute to it.
- Orgasm is not always easy to achieve, certain conditions can favor its arrival.
- Some positions are more stimulating for the partners.
Having an orgasm does not necessarily guarantee that a sexual relationship will be fully satisfying, but it can contribute to it. When both partners are fully involved in the sexual relationship and they both feel desired, orgasm can come to complete the sexual act.
Sexual relationship: not setting orgasm as a goal
In a sexual relationship, viewing orgasm as a requirement is counterproductive. Don’t focus on the rules you know for reaching orgasm, because the path varies from person to person and also from report to report.
Enjoy the present moment by taking time to hug, caress, kiss or massage yourself, this can reduce anxiety and performance stress and lead to better letting go.
As a couple or solo, pay attention to the atmosphere
A peaceful and serene atmosphere allows you to forget the worries and worries that stress you out, and prevent you from surrendering to orgasm. Soft lighting, background music, welcoming linens and time in front of you combine to create good conditions.
As a couple or solo, to reach orgasm, you have to get to know your sensitive points and what gives pleasure.
Choose stimulating sexual positions
Certain Kamasutra positions stimulate the clitoris and the G-spot in women, as well as the foreskin or the P-spot in men:
- The drunken Boat
- The candle
- The Amazon
- The chair
- The Big 8
- The square
- The Fantastic Ride
- The Norwegian Cross
- The star
Do not hesitate to make your own experiments to access the pleasure.
Find out more: “Orgasm without taboo” by Linda Lou Paget, published by Marabout.
