It was love at first sight. Everything went well, we clicked right away. The first months were like in a fairy tale. Romantic, full of passion and passion. But now you know everything about each other. What used to be exciting is now very common. But you can do something about it. Read the rules of thumb below and your relationship will be better than ever!
- Stay exciting for each other and break the routine every now and then. Don’t hang out in front of the TV every night. Surprise him and yourself with a night out, for example. Go to the cinema, the theater, a concert or unexpectedly book a romantic dinner in a restaurant.
- Always talk out arguments and anger. If you don’t do this, there is a danger that you will grow apart.
- Undertake new things. Never been to the sauna together? Give it a try. Or how about a nice massage? Bet this brings you closer together?
- Stay attractive to each other. Pay attention to your appearance.
- Burping, leaving dirty underpants lying around or peeing with the door open in each other’s vicinity may be familiar, but definitely not exciting. You don’t have to see everything from each other.
- Set aside an evening to discuss each other’s sexual fantasies.
- Surprise him with beautiful and exciting lingerie.
- Pay attention to sex. If the sex doesn’t feel right, find out why. Is it too predictable, too little spontaneous, too short or not often enough? Discuss it with each other.
- Give each other space. Doing your own things every now and then is good for the relationship. Know what it is to miss each other. For example, plan a weekend or longer with your girlfriend, mother or sister.
- Surprise him with a weekend away or a city trip to Barcelona, Rome or any other romantic city.
- Give each other gifts every now and then. This does not always have to be expensive. A sweet text, a bunch of flowers or a note on the table before you leave the house is also good. It’s about letting him know you’re thinking about him. And how about sending a card, online or simply by post?
- Do not put salt on every snail. No one is perfect, neither are you. Therefore, do not constantly complain if he is sloppy or spends too much time on his hobby. Be happy with what you have together.
- Treat him to an old-fashioned breakfast in bed. And remember: this does not necessarily have to be on the weekend!
- Make it romantic at home once in a while. Light candles, put on some music and treat him to his favorite dish. After all, the love of a man goes through the stomach.
- Compliment him every now and then. Everyone likes that.
- Keep meddling family away. Make decisions that are important to your relationship with him.
- Laugh enough, that makes the relationship cozy and relaxed.
- Never leave the house without giving your partner a kiss.
- After a phone call, or at other times, just say “I love you.”