Masturbation is a solitary pleasure of course, but it can be practiced during sex. How often with regard to sex, different combinations are possible: the two partners can caress each other in front of the other, each can stimulate each other during the penetration, fellatio, the cunnilingus… Your partner may be very excited and stimulated by watching you masturbate during your lovemaking. And it could spice up your relationships and possibly avoid getting frustrated if you fail to orgasm. It is also an opportunity to show your how to go about making you climb the curtains! In short, masturbating as a couple can be a way to establish a new form of complicity and also sometimes a sexual osmosis.
You dare not masturbate in front of your partner?
You have never experienced it spontaneously but your partner seems to want to integrate it into your sexual games. If it is essential to never feel obliged to do anything in sexuality and especially not to practice anything exclusively for the other, that does not prevent thinking about the proposal.
“By answering a direct and categorical no, your partner can feel judged and this feeling can harm the quality of your sexuality as a couple”, explains Catherine Solano.
When faced with a new proposition, it is essential to think about why you do not want it or what scares you? And possibly ask the other why they would like you to masturbate during sex.
Feeding the game in couple’s sexuality
Enter here masturbation and nothing, there is a range of caresses or acts that you can practice according to your desires and desire.
You can take your partner’s hand and stroke yourself with it, guide your partner during clitoral stimulation, or stroke yourself.
“The practice can take you further than the theory, the pleasure can lead you to no longer think about this act but just to live it. There is an appreciation zone and a sensation zone, ”recalls Catherine Solano. There may be a disconnect between your idea of the act and the sensations as you perform it.
To achieve a fulfilling sex life, the main thing is to listen to yourself, to listen to the other, to try, to feel, to live … pleasant, ”recalls the sex therapist.
The excitement of the other is a central driver of libido. Sharing new pleasures is an essential stimulation in couple sexuality. But to have fun, you have to let go, have confidence in your partner.
A great way to reach orgasm
According to a Orgasm Day survey, masturbation of the clitoris during penetration could allow women to reach orgasm more often.
Because according to this survey, the clitoris would be too often overlooked during intercourse! The French do not seem to practice more effective sexual activities for women to reach orgasm such as masturbation or double stimulation (clitoral and vaginal). “It is in France that vaginal penetration accompanied by clitoral stimulation is practiced the least frequently and only one French in three (34%) declares to practice it” often “, even though it is for them the practice allowing them to reach orgasm more easily: 77% achieve it “quite easily” “reveals this survey.
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