Banality and daily routine are the worst enemies of life together. So how to find the complicity, the bursts of laughter and the joys of the beginning? To spice up the relationship a little, find out how we can do good to two, day after day for save your marriage gloom…
You remember those unforgettable moments (and hot) spent together when you fell in love? What attracted you then in your partner? What went so well when you first met?
You both fell in love, that’s obvious. This flame must be able to be reborn, it is also a certainty. We give ourselves seven days to save our couple from the banality of everyday life…
Monday: a sensual atmosphere
Here is a first piece of advice to spice up your life as a couple… Place a few cushions on the sofa and the bed. Think of the softness of certain materials such as silk or 100% cotton. Avoid neutral tones and prefer shimmering colors like indigo blue, scarlet red or emerald green.
Buy flowers and arrange a few bouquets between the living room and the bedroom. To play the romantic cardprefer flowers with a subtle fragrance such as red roses.
Tuesday: evocative signs
Another piece of advice to spice up life together and save your couple… When you wake up this morning, kiss your partner furtively and don’t be stingy with a pleasant little caress.
In the bathroom or at the foot of the bed, don’t be afraid to move around naked, show yourself! Also remember to show up during the day by a tender and naughty message : text message, email, scribbled word slipped into his pocket or bag…
Wednesday: sexy to save your couple
Play with your gaze: knowing winks and loving glances should punctuate your dialogues. Talk about your last lovemaking and tell him how nice it wasand anything else you’d like to do but haven’t tried yet.
Call your partner during the day and whisper to him in the handset : “ I have a surprise for you when you get home tonight“.
Thursday: a little more explicit
In the morning, slip a little note into his belongings with, for example, written on it: “ I wish I was your lunch but you know I’ll be your dessert tonight“.
When you get dressed in the morning, give her some sexy underwear that you are going to ask him to wear on this day. Have him deliver a naughty book to his place of work or home!
Friday: the rise of desire
As the weekend approaches, bring up the good time you want to takemake projects that are not necessarily precise but whose common denominator is pleasure…
Rather than welcoming him at the door of your house or apartment, scatter rose petals which lead from the porch to the bedroom where you will be waiting for him. The effect is guaranteed!
Saturday: let loose
Arouse desire at your partner is a business that starts well before taking action. The earlier you start, the more you let the “pressure” build before the happy ending.
You have time, so take it! A shower for two, an erotic massage, a little striptease session, think about all those games that embellish physical love and extend it.
Sunday: project time
What keeps the flame alive in a couple is the conviction that we share our life with an exceptional personthe. And one of the things that can help with that is sharing with your partner the projects that are most important to you.
Tell him about your dreams and invite him to reflect to a beautiful project in common: Do you know what we could do next summer?“. If you both share a dream or a not trivial goal, for example parachute jumping or crossing the Siberian steppes on horseback, you can project yourselves together into the future. And what better topic of discussion for the next few months?
If you don’t have any common dreams or goals, at least try to work at the same pace, i.e. as a team, on your individual projects. It is also this, saving your couple from the routine!
If, for example, you want to create a website and your partner, for his part, wants to write a book, set time limits each week for work together, each on his own project. You will be able to share your progress, exchange ideas and, above all, support each other.
