The banality and the daily routine are the worst enemies of a couple’s life. So how to find the bond, the bursts of laughter and the joys of the beginning? To spice up the relationship a little, discover how we can do good together, day after day to save his couple gloom …
You remember those unforgettable moments (and steamy) spent together when you fell in love? What then attracted you to your partner? What went so well when you first met?
You both fell in love, that’s obvious. This flame must be able to be reborn, it is also a certainty. We give ourselves seven days to save our couple from the banality of everyday life …
Monday: a sensual atmosphere
Here is a first tip to spice up your life as a couple … Arrange a few cushions on the sofa and bed. Think about the softness of certain materials like silk or 100% cotton. Avoid neutral tones and favor shimmering colors like indigo blue, scarlet red or emerald green.
Buy flowers and arrange a few bouquets between the living room and the bedroom. To play the romantic card, prefer flowers with a subtle fragrance such as red roses.
Tuesday: evocative signs
Another tip to spice up life together and save your marriage… When you wake up this morning, kiss your partner stealthily and don’t be stingy with a pleasant little caress.
In the bathroom or at the foot of the bed, don’t be afraid to walk around naked, show yourself! Also remember to show up during the day by a tender and naughty message : text, email, scribbled word slipped into his pocket or bag …
Wednesday: sexy to save your marriage
Play with your gaze: knowing winks and loving glances should punctuate your dialogues. Talk about your last antics and tell him how nice it was, and anything else you’d like to do but haven’t tested yet.
Call your partner during the day and whisper to him in the handset : ” I have a surprise for you when you come home tonight“.
Thursday: a little more explicit
In the morning, slip a little note in his business with, for example, written on it: ” I wish I was your lunch but you know I’ll be your dessert tonight“.
By dressing in the morning, offer her some sexy underwear that you are going to ask him to wear on this day. Have him deliver a naughty book to his workplace or home!
Friday: the rise of desire
As the weekend approaches, talk about the good time you want to take, make projects that are not necessarily precise but whose common denominator is pleasure …
Rather than greet him at the door of your house or apartment, disperse rose petals which lead from the steps to the bedroom where you will be waiting for her. The effect is guaranteed!
Saturday: let go
Create desire with your partner is a business that starts well before taking action. The earlier you start, the more you let the “pressure” build before the happy ending.
You have time, so take it! A shower for two, an erotic massage, a little striptease session, think about all those games that embellish physical love and extend it.
Sunday: time for projects
What keeps the flame alive in a couple is the conviction that we share our life with an exceptional personthe. And one of the elements that can promote this is to share with your partner the projects that are most important to you.
Tell him about your dreams and invite him to think to a great joint project: ” Do you know what we could do next summer?“. If you both share a dream or a goal, for example taking a parachute jump or crossing the Siberian steppes on horseback, you can plan your future together. And what better topic of discussion for the next few months?
If you don’t have dreams or goals in common, at least try to work at the same pace, i.e. as a team, on your individual projects. It is also that, to save your couple from the routine!
If, for example, you want to create a website and your partner, on the other hand, wants to write a book, set yourself some time slots each week for work together, each on their own project. You will be able to share your progress, exchange ideas and most importantly, support each other.
