Putting distance in your couple can be beneficial. But for it to work, this pause must obey certain rules.
Is taking a “break” or a “break” in your relationship always synonymous with breaking up?
Putting distance in a couple can be a solution when arguments and discussions are going nowhere and make each of the partners suffer. However, for it to work, the station wagon must obey certain rules.
He must have a purpose
To take a break is to decide to find yourself and reflect on your couple, to see the damage caused by time or any other recurring argument within the relationship.
The purpose of the break is to create a void to find yourself face to face with yourself and see if the absence of the other is unbearable or if, on the contrary, it relieves and does good. To be honest with yourself, you have to temporarily accept not to live with your partner on a daily basis, nor to call or send him messages.
set rules
A break is not the time to meet people and be unfaithful, but on the contrary to be introspective and reflect on your own romantic relationship.
To make an effective break, both partners must agree on a deadline and the goal they expect from it.
Accept what comes of it
At the end of this break, the result can be double-edged: either it rekindles an extinct passion, or it breaks the relationship definitively.
In any case, if the break has been decided on together and everyone has thought about what they expect from the relationship, it can only be constructive for the future, whatever the outcome.
Be careful all the same with repeated breaks which can reflect a real difficulty in breaking up and a love that has become non-existent. The break then becomes a frustration as it continues to give vain hope to an already broken couple.
Find out more: Claire Delaporte, Happy coupleFirst editions.
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